Honor who you are
Intense thoughts pass through our minds, but how can anyone allow this? To this extent and to repeatedly ignore one’s true identity and true self. To the extent that our true identity is no longer “visible”! The need for the inner self to be expressed and the need of giving to the world with the uniqueness and endless individuality that each person seeks should be met and not suppressed.
It is obvious that fear, insecurity, and the need for belonging to a group are some of the reasons which cause this compromise. Low self-confidence and low self-worth play a key role in allowing a person to ignore and to downgrade his individuality. This can also be due to various non-beneficial experiences which have created “holes” in one’s soul. These “holes” make the acceptance of non-beneficial behavior from others and from ourselves easier, which suppresses our uniqueness with the hope of assisting in the healing of it, but in reality, it only creates the opposite.
An endless chaotic cycle!!!
How can I identify if I am in this chaotic cycle? Check the following signs:
- Do you judge the behavior and actions of others? Do you feel strongly about what they do or don’t do?
- Do you feel intense pain, frustration, disappointment and desperation for situations and circumstances around you?
- Are you dependent on people or situations?
If you have answered YES to at least one of the above questions, then you might be wondering how you can change this!
One thing is for sure, wherever you may be right now, that by acknowledging this challenge it is the first step in creating a positive and beneficial change to unraveling your uniqueness.
Some of the steps that we can take are:
- Identify in which areas of your life there is a lack of being yourself.
- Identify in which fields or situations anger is held in your soul.
- Learn to identify and how to express your emotions with patience and love.
- Identify your strong points, talents and abilities and honor them.
- Identify what you are seeking to “get” from others and give these things to yourself, on an emotional, physical and spiritual level.
- Face your fears and beliefs, and whatever does not serve you, let it go! This will free you!
- Boost your self-image and self-worth. Have at your center of attention your individuality and uniqueness.
Love who you are with all of your being, you are already good enough, you are whole and you are unique. Dare to uncover who you are and let the world see it!!!
Make each day a celebration of joy, love, creativity and of giving. Live strong, live with your soul fulfilled. Feel the greatness of what we call LIFE!!!
To your success,
Maria Menicou
Personal and Professional Development coach
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